This Is the Power of Divine Dark Feminine and Masculine Energy…
Dark feminine energy is all the rage right now on spiritual TikTok. What is dark feminine energy, really? Is it even a good thing? If there’s a dark feminine energy, then there must be a dark masculine energy, right?
With so many different takes on diving darkness, it’s hard to know what it is and if it’s even for you.
Humans like to categorize things in neat little boxes, polarizing them into darkness and light or good and evil. This makes our lives easier, especially in our fast-paced modern world. However, things are rarely black and white. The world, people, and energy are highly nuanced.
It makes things more complicated but also all the more exciting!
So here is a quick rundown about the power of divine dark energy, ways to tap into yours, and knowing if it's aligned with you right now.
Feminine and Masculine Energy 101
Before getting into the darkness of it all, here is a refresher on divine feminine energy and divine masculine energy.
First, everyone contains their own blend of masculine and feminine energies, regardless of gender. We are all stardust and Universe juice, and since the Universe contains both and we are part of the Universe, we contain both as well.
You may lean more towards or feel more comfortable with your feminine energy or masculine energy, and you may be lucky enough to feel them both equally.
Cultural and social norms can influence your relationship with one pole of energy, which can cause an overall energetic imbalance. For a more in-depth article about this, check out this post.
Divine Dark Feminine Energy
Women, in particular, find a lot of power in their divine dark feminine. This is the feminine energy that rebels against feminine expectations. For someone recovering from people-pleasing tendencies, tapping into this energy can be a massive help.
Imagine dealing with that one toxic family member that always makes you feel like you have to explain everything you say or do. Or that person who makes you feel guilty or obligated to mold to their needs.
Sometimes, these people are toxic. Sometimes, they just don’t know what you want or need because it’s hard for you to communicate that for whatever reason. Here is where your divine dark feminine comes in.
Instead of making yourself smaller or molding yourself to the needs and wants of others, your dark feminine allows you to put yourself first. Or, at the very least, it helps you communicate your needs clearly.
If you’ve ever had someone become really pushy with you and refuse to take no for an answer when you say it nicely, you may notice a more fearsome part of you come out and say no with more vigor. It's kind of like no, which tells the other person not to mess with you. That’s your dark feminine coming out.
Sometimes, in the types of situations above, it can feel like you're being a problem or selfish. Other times, you can be made to feel like the villain because it's much more convenient for the other person when you act like a “good girl.”
The divine dark feminine says sometimes you have to be the villain in someone else's story to do right by yourself.
However, each person has a different way of expressing this energy on a day-to-day basis when there isn’t direct conflict. It may help you overcome limiting beliefs that are holding you back from being your most authentic self. It could give you the strength to pursue the career you truly dream of.
Making friends with your divine dark feminine can be an incredible tool for manifesting your best life. Look into your Dark Moon Lilith placement to see how your dark feminine manifests itself best. For guidance, let’s go over your birth chart and create a customized plan.
Divine Dark Masculine Energy
Divine dark masculine energy can sometimes act very similar for a man. Men who want to stand strong in themselves against patriarchal ideas of masculinity or the expectations of others for who they should be as men can find strength here.
Masculine energy is often more action-driven than feminine energy. Where feminine energy is about sensing and feeling, the masculine component puts those feelings into action. In its best form, it uses the sensations of feminine energy to inspire and lead others.
However, in a patriarchal system, feminine energy is often seen as lesser and weaker. This leads men, in particular, to cut themselves off from their feminine energy, inadvertently reducing the power of their masculinity in the process.
This is where the dark masculine comes in. It can help you overcome the social limitations that prevent you from taking the action most aligned with your whole self… including connecting with your whole self.
A good example of a person with strong dark masculine energy is Kendrick Lemar. He does not hold back when it comes to addressing problematic men and systems of oppression. While other men in his industry stand back and stay silent because the approval of other men is so paramount to them, Kendrick is never afraid to speak truth to power.
Your birth chart can shed some light on how your dark masculine energy is best expressed. However, there are more components to consider than a single placement. So, it’s best to ask an astrologer.
Tapping Into Your Divine Darkness
When used wisely, compassionately, and in the best interest of all, divine darkness can be one of the most powerful things you can do to transform and transmute many aspects of your life. Like anything, it's about balance. So, it can, of course, go too far.
Chances are, if you’re reading this, you have never, or have limitedly, connected with divine darkness and are interested in discovering yours. You know now that your birth chart can shed some light on the best way for divine darkness to manifest itself for you. But you are also a highly intuitive being!
With some courage and curiosity, you can dive into yourself and discover the divine darkness within. Try this meditation below to get in touch.
Once you do the mediation, get your journal out and prepare to write! Here are some journal prompts to help you understand, connect, and deepen your divine dark energy.
Describe what you saw and felt during this meditation.
What would it look like for you to be your most powerful and confident self?
Step into your villain era for a minute… how would you, as your most villainess self, show up in your life so you can reach your goals?
Darkness does not have to be a bad or evil thing. It can be a source of rebellion and power. When used in a way that serves our highest good and the good of the collective, your divine dark feminine energy and divine dark masculine energy can not only help set you free… It can also give you the power to help change the world for the better. It can help you have the courage to leave behind the people in your life who bring you down.
It can give you the audacity to believe that you deserve to live the life you want to live authentically instead of the one that makes others happiest. And it can give you that extra oomph you’ve needed to make the changes that will change your life forever.
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