Finding Dharma: The Truth Will Set You Free…But First It Will Piss You Off

As I’m writing this, today is 2/2/2025 and 5:55PM and we are calling in ALIGNMENT and great ease for the journey ahead. Here goes!

What is your purpose in these strange and ever-changing times? Dharma equals your inherent purpose or true calling. Dharma (much like his sister Karma) really asks of us to manage our shadow and light.

Your crown chakra is not only your connection to the divine but it's also your channel to multi-dimensions or multi-dimensionality. And multi-dimensionality is being able to see beyond. It allows us to see the physical world.  It allows us to see the collective world from an energetic point of view. It allows us to see the emotional world. It allows us to see the cosmic world. It allows us to see the God consciousness world. And it also allows us to see beyond timelines, premonitions, prophecies, and divine timing.

To be a multi-dimensional channel is a lot of work. It's a lot of work. And it requires many different versions of you. And when to know which one to put into the driver's seat. What I've come to find out is that the shadow is usually the energy of our earthbound mission. And our light self or our higher self is version of us that always gives the benefit of the doubt, who sees the highest and the most potential in not only the world but everyone they come in contact with.  And so if you think about it from both of those perspectives, that’s how we know we are in Alignment. We are the light and the shadow.

If you think about your shadow self (the detective, the healer or the the dark empath) those are all of the justified validations that come through when you figure out how to manage the aspect of both your dark masculine and dark feminine. The justified validation of your dark feelings of rage, anger, and chaos, if not managed can spiral someone out of control. We've talked a lot about spiritual psychosis in my spiritual mentorship cohorts and how dangerous it can be. If we do not manage our chaos, if we do not manage our rage, if we do not manage that anger, that frustration, that hurt, that betrayal, then we'll lose ourselves and our reality. We might not ever find a purpose or a dharma because we're just going to be spinning and spinning and spinning in this witch caldron of shadow soup.

The same goes with the higher self. She's our angelic version. She is God's favorite, she sees the benefit of the doubt. She sees the good in everyone. She's very empathetic. She frolics and she plays down here on Earth. But here's the thing…on Earth, we have signed up to be in a 3D heavy, dense energy. That's the mission. No escaping the matrix, it won’t happen. Let’s shift the language and instead allow our Higher Self to “infiltrate” the matrix. We came here for that specific reason. If we are in and around this heavy dense energy that is Earth and we're always the light, then we're going to be naive. We're going to get taken advantage of. Narcissists, toxic people, energy vampires and gaslighters LOVE a naive earth angel with no boundaries. They can feed and feed from an endless source of light when we aren’t managing our Higher Self.

Here’s the thing…people are going to siphon our energy. They just are, let’s be real. This is why discernment and protection is always the first lesson in my spiritual mentorship program. Because knowing how to manage our shadow and structure our light in a way where we recognize when something isn’t right, we are able to call our energy right back. Or maybe we've picked up someone's energy accidentally on the street and it comes into our field, we just say "No, that's not mine. I’m going to send it back."

When people take our energy, or when we take from others, we lose the clarity of a way forward and down our own authentic dharmic path. Our dharma is our Divine Birthright and SACRED. Someone’s dharma cannot be bought or replicated because it isn’t meant for them. It is sacred code that lines our DNA. When we give ourselves away, we are cheating a Divine plan. And instead, we look for external validation and answers. Our dharma cannot be found outside of us. Our dharma is found within that morally justified validation of our own inner voice. And can be located in absolute quiet and silence. And so the great collective Trickster has let the world become incredibly noisy and distracted. That is our new Great War — the Battle for Our Frequency.

At this point in this blog I am setting the intention that you all reading this have eyes to “see” and ears to “hear”.

Dharma is simply God/Source’s voice and God/Source unity consciousness of unconditional love. There's nothing that can stop it. Nothing. There might be contracts that can be signed by things in the spiritual realm that slow down your ancestry. Or that slow down your mission on Earth.  But what is of the divine law or the unconditional love law can never be taken from you. It can, however, be slowed down. There can only be delays. So choose wisely and make good choices.

Dharma is found through revolutionary acts of courage and rebellion and comes from the heart-centered service to others. This means rebelling against an old version of yourself. Rebelling against you that has these habits that are getting you nowhere fast. Maybe they worked for you at one point, but now they're getting old and worn out. We're shedding that old skin. It is the Year of the Snake after all. Let her go so that something new can arrive.

Revolution takes knowing what your convictions are. What are your nonnegotiables and are you asserting them? To know means becoming the leader of yourself…outside of a group, outside of your work, outside of your institutions, outside of the books that you read, outside of the music that you listen to or the IG posts that you see. This is who you are at your core. Revolution is looking into yourself, outside of everything that everyone has told you that you are and coming back to this remembrance that you are one with the divine forever and ever and always. The divine always wins. It's not competitive, it's just the will of cosmic law. And thy will be done.

The truth shall set you free…but first, it will piss you off.

The hard part about spiritual awakening and revolution is coming into an awareness of what your purpose is by walking in truth. You must release expectations of other people and deter from walking into echo chambers that seek validation that cause division. Walking in negativity or hate means walking against your own truth. And when you step into that revelation, it's going to shake the foundations of your reality.

When our foundations of reality get quaked, divine rage awakens. You'll get pissed off because you will find that the systems and structures that we have been born and bred into want to keep your energy low.  Even though Divine Force always wins out, we live on a 3D plane of heavy dense energy that is capable of things like lying, gaslighting, control, injustice, and violence by any (earthly) means necessary. Once you start to realize your truth and the truth of all that is Divine, you begin to watch towers fall.

And when those towers fall, you want to make sure that you have people that are walking in truth with you. Groups, communities, friends, family, and loved ones that you want to come home to. Dharma is all of us just helping each other back home, after all. There might be challenges in the way, but in the end, you want to make sure that when towers come down and truths are told that you have those people around you that are going to be walking in truth with you. Brotherhood and Sisterhood.

The Dark Night Of The Soul

Truth, purpose and your Dharma are found by passing through the Dark Night of the Soul. Also known as Ego Death, this path to enlightenment requires letting go of control, expectations and outcomes through a massive surrender and trust-fall with the Universe. When we wake up spiritually, it comes back down from the crown of the head and lands right in the third eye chakra. The bliss and joy phase is only the beginning, just enough spiritual “juice” to keep you curious because what goes up must come back down to reality. The process of coming back down requires opening up the third eye of intuition. Intuition is vital for where we are headed as a collective. Logic and reason are reaction based. Intuition allows you to see a problem before it comes. Proactive.

And believe me, the ego does not go down without a fight. Your ego wants to keep you safe and keep you in control of your environmental and situational outcomes. Your ego keeps you from finding your power because it must keep you in a survival state at all times.

We must be careful when entering the Dark Night of the Soul to not fall into spiritual psychosis. As the ego dies off, the psyche is now coming forward and having her moment. And when the psyche awakens, the dark feminine or masculine creative chaos arises. And with it, all that trauma, pain and suffering we have packed down in the depths of our subconscious. If we do not manage our Ego Death it becomes a hurricane or tsunami that spins the mind towards insanity. If we don't catch and harness the storm in our mind, we can spiral. That's when it's really important to have those quiet moments to redefine your voice and inner knowing. The ego death is going to happen one way or another.

Spiritual Warfare and Multi-Dimensionality

Multi-dimensionality is you knowing or tuning in and channeling collective warfare. So whether it's politics, climate change, or other morals and ethics, spiritual warfare is literally the collective consciousness battling it out against love and hate.

Spiritual warfare is us not losing our energy or our channel so that it can be a divine vessel that brings Heaven onto Earth Earth is supposed to be high vibrational and humans have done Her so dirty. Earth is supposed to be communal. It is supposed to be sharing and not taking. It's supposed to be giving and acts of service. And the spiritual warfare that we're in right now demands that we draw a line in the sand with ourselves and our soul. You're either a mirror or a projection in spiritual warfare. You are either walking in love and truth or hate and fear. And yes, you will you bounce back and forth..you are a human after all. The pendulum swings back and forth sometimes so that you can figure out how to manage your light and your dark. That's multi-dimensionality.

All the deities, archangels, and ascended masters are really just pieces of our higher self played out in different characters and different dimensionalities. Ascended masters, spirit guides and archetypes allow your ego mind to make sense of spiritual warfare both internally and externally.

Breaking trauma bonds. This is really, really important for Dharma. Like…really important.

Trauma bonding is an addiction to love, healing, or worship. It attaches, harvests and siphons energy from another person without them giving permission. Trauma bonding is non-consensual and dangerous. Trauma bonds create codependency on other people to help you find your purpose. And we don't want that.

The way that we break our trauma bonds is to we remove the energetic shackles, chains, barriers, walls, and shields we've our heart, throat, third eye and crown chakras.

Dismantling trauma bonds an act of reclaiming your power and practicing nonviolence to yourself, others and the Earth. If you are living in a nonviolent truth then you are fulfilling your dharma and your purpose. When we are constantly taking as human beings from ourselves and being naive and disposing of our energy in ways that allow us to not see our purpose and walk in our truth, we accumulate karma. More violence equals more karma. This is why shadow work is vital.

Your dharma equals your joy.

Your dharma will never take or drain from you. It will feel in your heart like joy. It will feel like children playing. it will feel like a gentle breeze. It will feel easy and soft and unconditionally beautiful. So whatever work you do, let it be work that brings you joy. I know that's hard for us now because we're trying to unravel these systems and structures of capitalism and violence and we have to play the game at times, but that's how we practicing manage our light and our shadow.

As you're on this journey to find your dharma and your joy, notice what's draining you. Notice what's making you question your truth. Notice what's making you feel small. Notice what fills you up. Notice where you are celebrated, not just tolerated.  It will feel good.

Playing devil's advocate and virtue signaling.

Finding one’s Dharma WILL NOT be found through playing devil's advocate. This is the mask of having one foot on the side of love and one foot on the side of hate. And let’s be real…some people's dharma is to, in fact, walk in hate and fear. Some people's dharma is to walk in love and light. That's where we detach and we let go of outcomes and expectations. But devil's advocate does not have a solidifed truth. The Devil’s Advocate is a Trickster that causes confusion and chaos. That's how we stay confused and within conformity. That's how we stay distracted.

Virtue signaling is manifestation of a God Complex. For example, I paid $5 to this charity and you only paid $2, so I'm better and I'm closer to God. Virtue signaling takes from divine purpose and is indeed a very violent act. So be really careful about wanting to be competitive in your spiritual journey. This is where you really want to manage that aspect of the Dark Night of the Soul very, very carefully because this is where your soul can get swallowed up. Make it a priority to focus on service to avoid spiritual psychosis in manic form. Virtue signaling monopolizes and capitalizes on empathy and places a cap on the amount of compassion we have to give.

Authenticity

Authenticity is that courageous act of revolutionary rebellion. That's when our towers fall down. As you walk down a spiritual path, people are going to jump in front of you and say "Be scared! The world is ending!” But the truth is…the world has been ending since to the beginning of time. There's nothing to be scared of. Fear is just a mechanism that protects us and keeps us safe. And that fear has a purpose. But when we generate fear just for the sake of spreading negativity it keeps us from the authentic mission our souls signed up for.

Fear is a great soul killer and that’s why its an effective tool that those in power use to keep societies in line. The shadow work practice of soul retrieval, however, allows you to go back into your past trauma and pick up the pieces that are still there. Because when trauma happens, we fractal off a piece of our soul and it gets stuck in the past. By going back and claiming your authentic inner child you gain insight into who your WHOLE self is.

What's going to get you even further is emotional intelligence and mental fortitude. Your emotions are a fortress. They are yours. And sure, there's people that are out there to support you, but at the end of the day, your emotions are yours. They are not someone else's. Your mental mind, your consciousness, your psyche, your shadows are yours. We fortify our shadows and manage our thoughts.  The concept of authenticity through strength and emotional intelligence is an invitation to see with clear eyes and gain clarity.

If we are not regulating our emotions or we are never changing and working on our mindset or our shadows, we will get lost in the sauce. Some of us will try and “busy” our way to enlightenment. But here’s the thing…your dharma doesn't want you to work hard. And in fact, the Universe is working extremely hard to prove to you that you are a worthy of great Purpose.